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Arjun Rajagopalan's avatar

Thank you Demi for this clearly thought out, well articulated essay on the brink of the precipice that humanity is poised at. As right-thinking people, we need to react in a strong fashion or risk being swept away in the flood. The solutions that you propose may seem Utopian to those of us who have given up, but fight we must. Jaron Lanier, the wise pioneer of the internet, predicted the hijacking of the web, way back in 2006. Writing in Edge, Lanier talks about the "tragedy of the commons" and "Digital Maoism"and goes on to say, "What we are witnessing today is the alarming rise of the fallacy of the infallible collective. ... Why isn't everyone screaming about the recent epidemic of inappropriate uses of the collective? It seems to me the reason is that bad old ideas look confusingly fresh when they are packaged as technology." Again, this was in 2006.

The internet still remains the primary weapon for carrying the fight back into the camps of these dark forces. Social media got hijacked by commercial organisations with massive resources at their command. The recent rise of federated platforms like Mastodon permits small voices to hold out but as yet has not come out with a strong, user-friendly set of tools. With great hope, I signed up with one "instance" and was really enjoying it when it folded up for lack of money to keep it going. This looks like a problem that is likely to be recurrent and needs solutions.

As you point out, we need to reform and grow physical communities like in days of yore. I think it was Richard Dawkins who said that despite being a confirmed atheist, he goes to church because of the one-on-one social networking and community-fostering that places of religious worship have always provided. The internet, for all its benefits, has created isolation and loneliness of a historically unprecedented dimension.

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The Starfire Codes's avatar

I agree. And keeping us isolated is strategic. If we are reluctant to congregate, we can't as readily share ideas. It makes gatekeeping easier if ideas are being shared online instead. "Community standards" have been weaponized against organic discourse.

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Preston's avatar

This is an absolutely necessary read for everyone.

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The Starfire Codes's avatar

Thank you so much. I'm honored!

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Mark C Still's avatar

Absolute dogma here. Which I realize is exactly what we need to dismantle and you preach against. Like the titular character in "Life of Brian" exhorting the individuals in the crowds to all think for themselves, and then all those individuals parroting back what Brian said, in unison.

I agree with every word you wrote. Indeed, these have been my sentiments for decades; you just express it much more eloquently.

But the question is: how? Dear Lord in Heaven, How? One ray of hope is that since society-at-large has revealed itself to be oh, so easily manipulated in these past three years, it stands to reason that they can stand to reason and be persuaded to groupthink in the other direction.

But that's still manipulation, isn't it?

I'm afraid we've got a bit of a quandary here.

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The Starfire Codes's avatar

Yes, exactly - we cannot ethically manipulate people out of being manipulated even if doing so is for their own good. They have to choose to walk away from the manipulation themselves. So we continue to educate, educate, educate. We're in this for the long haul.

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Mark C Still's avatar

Wow, that was quick! I'm grateful.

I, too, am in it for the long haul. Life is a matter of establishing your values and then infusing every thought, every action, every nuance with those values. Hold the line.

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The Starfire Codes's avatar

It's all we can do, but it's actually a lot. It takes time to shift consciousness, but with every notion we plant, ripples form. The analogy my guides gave me was rhizomes, so this is how I believe it is happening (or it was the closest word I had in my vocabulary that expressed the thought in a way I would understand it conceptually). I wrote about it here: https://www.starfirecodes.com/p/affecting-rhizomatic-consciousness-of-humanity

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Mark C Still's avatar

I took a perusal for now, mostly to find out just what the heck rhizomes are. I'll have to go further in at a later date. I also took a perusal at your bio. Demi, you write "join us..." Who's us? ( or is that who're us?)

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The Starfire Codes's avatar

My team on the project - it's not just me! :)

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Winkfield Twyman's avatar

This was a splendid read. Just what I needed this evening. Continue all of your good work in ushering in the Blessed Society where divisions melt away.

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The Starfire Codes's avatar

Thank you so much!

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Punditman's avatar

This is very well written. It reads like a manifesto on how to fix society.

I go back and forth on whether or not “designing technology that brings out the best in us” is even possible. To address the social ills we’ve created through tech and isolation, it seems the only answer we ever hear from those forces that created this mess is more of the same (we’ll make an app for that). We can’t role back the clock, but the diminished Luddite inside me is doubtful. I realize I’m swimming against the tide there. Of course there are plenty of other community-based non-tech ideas listed here too. Great article, Demi.

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The Starfire Codes's avatar

Thank you so much!

It's important to remember that the tech itself is agnostic. It's the intention that we bring to the tech that determines whether the way it is utilized is "good" or "bad." And this tends to result in a sort of technological arms race. If those who mean well do not advance at the same pace as those who don't, we're giving our power away to those who don't. So, on some level, we have a responsibility to stay engaged and actively prevent or mitigate harm.

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Punditman's avatar

Good points. One problem is that our brains have been rewired, which is sad, because nobody asked us if that would be okay. Even those with the best intentions have played their parts, unwittingly. I don't pretend to have an answer to that aspect - perhaps I'm still mourning its reality.

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The Starfire Codes's avatar

We won't always win every iteration. And we're usually operating under a false assumption that the winners of each face off or altercation are the "good guys" because the victors spin "history" in their favor - and that's the best case scenario. Worst case scenario is that history is being rewritten to destabilize the populace by separating us from our roots and therefore context and meaning. We simply don't know what we don't know. We have a massive historical blind spot.

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Punditman's avatar

For another view on this, have you checked out the writings of Paul Kingsnorth? One could say, his is a minority view but nonetheless worth considering, as I look into this black mirror and push Post: https://open.substack.com/pub/paulkingsnorth/p/the-neon-god

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The Starfire Codes's avatar

I haven't! Thank you! :)

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Allison Gustavson's avatar

I subscribe to Kingsnorth and find a great deal of value in his thoughts and beautiful writing.

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IPR with Mack Morris's avatar

This is a beautifully comprehensive approach to strengthening communities. We should all read & study — & practice. Great write-up.

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The Starfire Codes's avatar

Thank you so much!! ❤️❤️❤️

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Lee Wood's avatar

There are particular questions here for older generations - most young uns are still having a great time

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Bob Atchison's avatar

I found this piece at Winkfield’s suggestion. I agree with everything he said!

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The Starfire Codes's avatar

Thank you so much!

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Winkfield Twyman's avatar

Thank you for bringing needed insight and wisdom into the world!

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Sally Lee Stewart's avatar

Love this.

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The Starfire Codes's avatar

Thank you!

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Sally Lee Stewart's avatar

Love this.

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Jigs Gaton's avatar

I like all of this very much, and is aligned with the project i have going here: https://herojig.medium.com/my-project-plan-for-techbros-must-die-caa778b1c499, yet the last para is troubling.

"No one sane benefits when societies split into hostile tribes. The path beyond polarization lies in restoring cooperative communities, systems, and relationships that recognize our interdependence. With compassion and will, we can..."

I've read history. One can find few instances where societies were NOT hostile tribes. We have been split since we emerged from the Cradle in S.Africa. Sure, with compassion and will we could do anything within reason, but this? I am not convinced, and have not been for most of the 69 long years I've spent here. Sure, there were some years where there seemed to be community, and community involvement in settling tribal differences, and some of that even seemed to work. But those years have long past. Can those times return? And how?

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The Starfire Codes's avatar

I am so happy to have found the likeminded souls I have on here. Such conscious deep thinkers, including yourself. Best community on the internet, bar none!!

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