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Stjarna's avatar

Sometimes I have tested as an INFJ and sometimes as an INFP. I think I default to an INFP if I am in a happy, stable relationship but an INFJ when I am single or toxic relationship.

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The Starfire Codes's avatar

This makes a lot of sense. The urge to control the environment feels more pressing when the environment is out of control. I would go with what your default is then. Also, many people seem to vacillate between P and J. It's come up the most of any sort of fluidity within the responses. You might see that you test in the center of P and J. This is true of me with other variables, and so I relate strongly to four of the 16 types depending upon how I feel that day.

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Heather B's avatar

OMG these memes totally get me!!! INFJ here. Thank you!

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The Starfire Codes's avatar

You're welcome! <3

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Heather B's avatar

I actually sometimes test out as INFP and sometimes J. Also only 60% F 40% T and really INFJ-T ... so it's probably an INFJ thing to take the test over and over?

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Betsy Barnum's avatar

This is me too! The first time I took the test, I was married to someone who was (probably) way out on the FP scale so I had to be the TJ one in the partnership or no decisions would ever get made. Later, I came in as more FP, but likely close to the middle on both. Though I consider myself INFP, I relate very much to these INFJ memes.

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The Starfire Codes's avatar

It's similar to how it works with the enneagram. Different numbers will come up in different expressions of the self. So you could exhibit traits of the opposite wing, but your dominant wing will be your go-to most of the time.

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The Starfire Codes's avatar

You likely score at the center of the J/P spectrum. So, depending upon the day, you might see different results.

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Jackson Houser's avatar

I've taken that Myers-Briggs assessment three times now, and the first three traits seem pretty stable. It is that fourth spectrum, the judging--prospecting continuum, that seems to vary. That would be consistent with the fifth band in the results, assertive--turbulent. So, maybe the test is somewhat valid. But wait! I used the same device to access the assessment each time. They know its me! They're just playing with me, flattering and teasing me, aren't they? Thanks for the links and memes and insight and inspiration.

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The Starfire Codes's avatar

It's likely you fall at the center of the J/P spectrum. I'm an ambivert who falls dead center of thinking and feeling. So there are four states of being I might have, depending upon how I feel that day. If there's one that feels more like you more of the time, pick that one.

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Douglas McClenaghan's avatar

Good point. There is plenty of bleeding through each of these categories, they are not discrete.

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Rosemary B's avatar

there are many of those tests online.

It is good to take all of them😂

then, of course, save all of the results from each source.

Go over them carefully, when you have a minute... in that case, for myself, is never.

Then take the tests again with various conflicting results.

Awww heck with it

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Free Human's avatar

I oscillate between INFP and INTJ, but this little MBTI prayer list a friend shared with me made me see that I'm definitely leaning INFP 🤣🤣🤣

https://faculty.georgetown.edu/jod/texts/mbprayers.html

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Kris Jackson's avatar

Yes, help me do it exactly right and oh did I spell that correctly?? 😂

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Nathan Carney's avatar

"I got the new starter INFJ pack, I knew the ins and out [details] s of of it so well I beat a few friends with it. We all had fun. I can't wait for the new expansion pack mostly for the artwork"-INFJ

"I couldn't tell you I love you so I just wrote the words in this song"-INFJ

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The Starfire Codes's avatar

🤣🤣🤣

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Shanti Rae Lobaugh's avatar

Whoa these are so right on, I’m sort of startled! LOL! I’ve taken the test several times, it comes back as either INFJ or INFP. Not sure what that means? I guess there is some gray area here?

Thank you Demi, I really love your stuff.

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The Starfire Codes's avatar

You're welcome!! Thank you so much!! <3

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Lauren's avatar

I feel SEEN. And therefore, ATTACKED.

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The Starfire Codes's avatar

LOL!

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Sky's avatar

BINGO!

I'm an old school INFJ- from back when there wasn't a term for it. I'm awfully conflicted about this- I don't like being a "type" but I have to admit that it describes a lot of the "indescribable" about me. There are others of this type, too, so it's like finding our tribe at long last. But what is a tribe of INFJs? There ought to be some memes about that.

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Kris Jackson's avatar

As I said before, I always came up ISFJ or INFJ, but it really surprised me to come up INFP most recently. All of these memes are soooo me, but I found the INFP description to be how I’ve evolved, I suppose.

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Douglas McClenaghan's avatar

My tribe. What a great series this is!

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The Starfire Codes's avatar

Thank you! :)

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Anne Mattingly's avatar

so funny. i always test out as infp but every one of these is right on. lolol. wow

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The Starfire Codes's avatar

Ha! I love that!! 🤣🤣🤣

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Trudi Nicola's avatar

Love all of these! It’s me all over! All of em! Thank you, Demi!😂🥰

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The Starfire Codes's avatar

You're welcome! 🤣🤣🤣

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Trudi Nicola's avatar

Genius meme drops, Demi! ☺️😂

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The Starfire Codes's avatar

Thank you! 🥰

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Renee Marie's avatar

Thank you!

Wow…there’s other people like me? 🥰💜

Great memes!

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The Starfire Codes's avatar

Thanks, Renee!! <3

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Hege Kristoffersen's avatar

As an INFJ I had to laugh at some of these 😂

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The Starfire Codes's avatar

LOL! <3

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Linda Gomez's avatar

Are you a Scorpio?? These resonate with me so much.

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The Starfire Codes's avatar

We all have a bit of Scorpio energy from the 8th House, whether we're Scorpios or not, but no, I am not. :)

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Nathan Carney's avatar

I think she's a Virgo

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Jennifer's avatar

Dead on! I am cracking up at the box with the rug on top..so true!!! Thanks for putting these together!

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The Starfire Codes's avatar

LOL! No problem!! <3

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