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Jacqueline Rendell's avatar

THIS is why I LOVE you!! ❤️ (sorry, not sorry for reposting so many words;)

"...Wallowing in despair isn’t going to make it better.

Continuing to speak up so that those who choose to listen will have the benefit of access to what I know does make things a bit better - so I focus on that instead.

I feel genuinely sorry for anyone who is going through repercussions from their choices or for anyone who has lost anyone or had to watch a loved one’s health deteriorate before their eyes.

We are all dealing with that - and this is going to be the unfortunate state of things moving forward.

So, I try to remain detached as much as possible and to grieve in waves, allowing myself to process as the feelings arise.

But I also won’t allow anyone to pull me into the darkness of feeling black pilled over it.

We have to stay solution-focused.

We have to learn to thrive past the hardships.

Adopting a dark mindset about what has been done to us is as effective as crying over spilled milk.

I’m not going to go there.

I know my limits - and I will break if I try.

I will hold space and I will hold out a hand for those looking to climb up out of the hole - I will help those intent to climb back out of that state to transmute the energy - but I will not climb back down into the hole with them.

It’s counterproductive, and I need to keep my wits about me, with my mind sharp, my energy clear, and my connection open.

I need to be able to see the pathway forward and communicate that to the best of my ability.

That is how I am most useful to others and to myself.

So that will always come first."

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Dave pearen's avatar

Demi you have such wisdom and compassion it's beautiful.

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